Children is our Reflection

Reflection of Our Children

Please dad, I think I found it difficult at all to cope with ya ... my bad behavior, in answer yes please ....
So roughly the sound of a mother's comments were also once wanted curcol, want to complain at the same time wants to find a solution.
My best friends parents peers,
Many parents say that "Daddy please, I find it difficult to completely overcome the bad behavior of my children".
In my experience of 10 years so the parents of two children were outstanding with age difference of only 1.5 years.
It turns out that I actually experienced was me instead of the difficulty in overcoming the bad behavior of my children but rather "I feel trouble once in OVERCOME BAD BEHAVIOR OF MY OWN,
"Yes, my bad behavior, parents were eventually copied by my son".
So finally I did was to undergo self-therapy or menterapi myself so that I could change my bad behavior-behavior that is in the example by my son.
And sure enough it turns out it's not easy ...!It takes time, great intentions, hard work, perseverance and patience are boundless, to be changed step by step.
Such as to no longer be a parent who is quick to anger, not to be a parent who spoke in a high voice, to no longer lie to children, to be able to smile more often than yell, to become parents often praise rather than criticize, to be more willing to accept them as they are rather than demanding, to become parents are more willing to listen than to always advised
For want patiently answered my questions that incessantly throughout the day about what you think we (adults) "not important" to be answered.
Yes my question who come repeatedly endlessly and sometimes until I was dozing off to bed he still kept asking.
But of course the result is worth the hard work we've done.
Yes !!!! Our son started to change for the better and better day by day. So life is increasingly felt wonderful and happy with our children and our children also feel happy to live with us.
So really, in my experience, PARENTING SCIENCE IS NOT ONLY TO EDUCATE CHILDREN, BUT MORE TO SCIENCE HOW WE ARE ABLE TO CHANGE ALL THE BAD BEHAVIOUR TO BE BETTER AGAIN.
PARENTING IN FACT, TO MORE SCIENCE TO EDUCATE OUR OWN AS PARENTS, whose behavior ANY TIME BE IN CHILDREN BY EXAMPLE.
So true ! because it turns out the real behavior of our children is only a reflection of the behavior of parents everyday.
Just like an old saying "like father like son", "fruit does not fall far from the tree".
No way we can make our children to behave well if we are not trying to give a good example to him.
But apparently learned Parenting it is never the end, the more we learn the more we find perilaku2 poor who need to "immediately" change.
And why should IMMEDIATELY? because if it does not immediately change, then our children will soon emulate.
Because it is our children are accomplished imitators of behavior of parents, teachers, and social environment also watch the show on television that he sees every day.
And at the request of many of our experience is finally written down in a book that we gave the title 37 Habits of Parents who delivered the bad behavior of children.
So let us together to underscore this sentence,
"We will never be able to fix the bad behavior of our children if we do not want to fix our own bad behavior" (which perhaps we do outside of our consciousness)